Been a while

I know it has been a while since my last entry – work, illness, business, etc. I am going to have start turning down invites, it is not that I am jealous of them on the contrary but I am just a bit tired of hanging around 20 somethings whose eyes are constantly hovering round for a potential spouse, or the fact that they seem to take offence when older ones like me are seated at the same table as they are. FYI, I don’t exactly like it myself but if that is where I have ‘placed’ there can do anything about it. Or having to look round for people my own age to sit /chat to. Ok I am not saying all 20 somethings are the same but majority of the ones I meet at weddings are. Compared to some of the ones I hang out these ones are so childish!

Moving on, I am making the best of this lovely winter – socialising with friends or on my own, making jewellery in the park. As I have always said, don’t wait for people, you can enjoy life on your own. If someone stands you up, don’t stay indoors mopping, have a plan B, get out and do what ever it was on your own – depends on what it is, eating alone in the restaurant may not be comfortable for some. Even I know my limits, I can do lunch in a cafe with my Kindle but not dinner in a restaurant. I will just go and watch a film or play instead, you have to be quiet for that so no worries. All I am saying, don’t let life pass you by, you don’t want to end up years down with regrets. For me I am so glad I took the plunge to go on holiday on my own all those years agao, I did go with a Christian group where I made friends but I have also had holidays in the UK where it has been just me. I love exploring so it is not a problem, if people don’t speak to me fine or if I get looks cos I am a black woman on her own, tough but I am determined to enjoy myself cos I worked hard for the money and deserve to spend it however, I like!!

I hope the sun is shining where you are, if not, Thank God that you are alive, seize and enjoy every moment, put another way carp diem.

God bless always,



About dee

I am a Christian from South London, England, very passionate about healthy eating and lifestyle. I am not into fad diet, I cook from stratch, as I love wholesome and nutritious food. My hobbies & interests are watching tv, going to the cinema, reading, listening to music, baking, roller blading, cooking, socialising.
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