Why the insecurity?

What to do with insecure women? I honestly don’t know. Yes I get they may have been hurt in the past but it doesn’t mean that every woman who talks to their man is a ‘would-be snatcher’ or home wrecker. Where do they get off thinking every singleton is going after their fella, a girl not dare even smile, talk more of saying hello without arousing suspicion. Ok, the same applies to men but as I am a woman I can only see it clearly from my perspective. I have however, seen men go all possessive when another man is talking to their girlfriend or wife. From my point of view, I don’t see why I have to keep trying to prove that although I am a mature single female I am not going after a man who is already taken. Granted some of my gender would but you can’t put us all in the same in ‘basket’, we are not all Jezebels!!
From a personal view point, I have always had guys as friends in fact I actually prefer it to cos I feel I can be myself more it also stems from me being a tomboy. I can’t exactly talk/watch sport with a lot of women, I am not been stereotypical but let’s be honest how many women will you actually see at a football match or sit in front of the telly watching say a Rugby match. What am I trying to say is that only a small minority of women are really into sport. The other point is that I am not really into lady-like stuff – getting dressed up all the time, Rom-Com, etc. But I do regard/think of myself as full bloodied woman!


About dee

I am a Christian from South London, England, very passionate about healthy eating and lifestyle. I am not into fad diet, I cook from stratch, as I love wholesome and nutritious food. My hobbies & interests are watching tv, going to the cinema, reading, listening to music, baking, roller blading, cooking, socialising.
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